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it'll make you happy. promise :D

tattoo fail...

ahahahahahahahahahaha the most hideous thing i have EVER EVER EVER seen!!!! LOL.

bored whilst baby-sitting my niece.

i totally just wrote a post about friendship, but um ya; i shut that one down. i'm so bored! lol. hit me up on that twitter ish: twitter.com/mlvoecali. and yes i did spell "love" like this; lvoe. it's a habit. well i might as well write about that instead lol it'll be short...

promise.

sooo the story goes,

i'm dyslexic when it comes to "love." when i think about it, i see other things than what it really is. i see hurt/pain, drama, headaches, heartaches, etc. etc. i also think i'm incapable of "loving" someone. i feel like i haven't received as much lvoe as i could have growing up. i mean did receive lvoe, but honestly, i get tired of receiving lvoe from the same people. i need lvoe from everyone...maybe i'm a brat/greedy/needy like that, but if i don't get lvoe frome other people, i just don't feel right. is that weird? lol like i hate when people don't like me either. i'm like c'mon dude...you should like me. then we can talk about lvoing me. :D i don't know, maybe i have issues, but i feel like i need "love" in my life. this post makes no type of sense, but watev. it makes sense to me lol.

natural hair.

that right there, was the mayhem.




this is my REAL hair! :D (it's longer than it looks)

the weave is OUT!

thank goodness.

as soon as i took it out,
the itching stopped.

miraculous!
i am now a happy bee!

:D

dreadful.

i put a weave in my hair.

i toatally went against all of the stuff i was preaching about.

and now i'm paying for it!!!
MY SCALP IS ITCHING TO THE POINT WHERE
I SWEAR I HAVE CUTS ON MY SCALP.
i need to take this thing off!
N O W .

and i think i will.
my cousin will be mad at me,
but hunni,
this thing is NOT okay...

one of the worst days of my life.

it all started when i woke up late this morning. i usually set my alarm for six o'clock am and give myself thirty mintues to snooze. i don't know if i accidently turned it off or whatever, but i ended up waking up at 7:04. i literally had to jump in and out of the shower. so i was done getting ready by 7:50 and left the house. everything was okay for the time being. astronomy was dope. but then i had to drive all the way to my house to get my ATM card, because stupid me, i always leave it in my sweater/coat pockets (this will be significant later). so i get my card, and drive all the way back to school so i could purchase $180 worth of art supplies and some of the books for my other classes.

next, i stopped by target and got this reversable dress i had my eye on (i think it's too big). tutoring went well--we watched "crash" (too many actors in ONE movie lol). in case you are wondering, the way my fellow tutors and i tutor is not your average (another story). but anywho, i left by 1:30 because i needed to get the rest of my art supplies. so i drove to jo-ann and michaels, but they didn't have the items i needed, i was only able to find the newsprint sketchbook i needed. sooo i drove ALL the way across town to this art supply store called "university art."

i sorta took the long way, but either way it didn't matter because the car gave out right when i turned the corner. I FAILED TO PUT GAS IN THE CAR! i had thought about it millions of times while i was driving, even though i knew the light was on! so they car started to slow down and i had to park in a RED zone. RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE FIRE HYDRANT! all i could say at the time was "fxck my life." so i put the emergency lights on and walked to the art supply store (it was like a minute away from the car) to use the phone. why you ask? because i failed to charge my cell phone. it was beyond dead. like in another galaxy beyond. so i call my mother and instead of asking how i was doing, she decided to yell at me. so i tell her where i'm sort of located LOL and my father comes to the rescue! with $5 worth of gas. this car was sooo beyond E, five dollars was not enough. so dad leaves, because he thought i was okay, but the car would not start. so i waited a couple minutes in hopes of the gas "settling in," HOWEVER, it did not settle in. not even close. at this time, the car wouldn't even budge. so i waited for an hour, and i went to the store again to make the dreadful call to my mother (my father is not helpful, i swear he hates me). so he comes and tries to help me out, but it wasn't working. he calls the car rental place and then they came and took the car and gave my dad a new one (the ending was rushed lol). this whole situation was around 4 hours long. maybe longer.

oh ya, and i didn't eat for the whole day either. me and my tummy were having a depressing axx convo. we fell in lvoe later though. :D

turn left.

i'm still crazy for some little dragon...

i was going to post some fashion stuff, but it's only been one day since twenty-ten! lol so i guess that that will be a fail for now. :D haven't posted anything fashion in a while. 2009 was not the best year for me. i was going through some ish y'all. and still going through it...

first post of the new year.

boy has this year been nutzo! i won't go into complete detail, but i got into a car accident (still battling that one out, *sigh), i went natural, i became a vegetarian (let's see how long that lasts lol), i let some people go, met some new people that i have come to enjoy, and hopefully i meet some more this year. i have also finally decided on my major--fashion merchandising, and hopefully i stick to it...basically this year has been a year full of changes for me. i am no longer the same bee i was in 2008. i feel like i have matured and finally figured out who i want to be and not who everyone else wants me to be. my mother may feel like i am weird & different and that i am not her same "bee," but seriously--people change. i guess it was my turn. i am writing this knowing most people won't even come across it, but i feel like i need to write it anyway, just because.

other changes include the relationship with my mother and father, relationships that i regret messing up, but i guess they just don't understand. they're old fashioned africans so that might be a factor, but hopefully that will change. *that by NO means was a new year resolution

speaking of new year resolutions, i refuse to make one. everytime i do, i lose it, forget it, or just don't care for it. there really is no point in making one. i guess just setting goals for oneself throughout the year will do...no a long axx resolution list. stuff happens, plans are wrecked...blaaah!

but anywho,
happy new year to all around this "lonely" world & be safe.

enraptured by this song.

literally;

addicted.

music like this makes me lay back and chill...

and lose my mind in my thoughts
and such...
can you dig it???

oops...

did i ever mention that i finally cut my hair?
well,
i cut it on august fourth
:DDDD
ooopsie daisies......
pictures later
[3 months too late lol]

promise.

haven't posted anything in a while...

as of now:
i'm jamming to some reggae!
woooooooo!
i lvoe jamaican people!
i want to marry somebody who's jamaican
so i can hear his accent 24/7...

anywho...

what's been going on...
nothing much really.

i have a new job!
i tutor for this program
i was in last year (my first year of college)
called "First Year Experience" (FYE)
which i'm happy about.
it's not all about the mulaaa,
i like to help people!
:DDD

school is okay.
i just hope i pass all of my classes
with a B or better...
i'm on a roll here!

the number of depressive episodes
have gone down.

i've decided i need to "reinvent" myself.
this includes:
re-doing my room
changing up my style
etc., etc.
when will all of this be done?
when the mulaaa comes in lol
aaand when i'm not being lazy...

i know what i want to do with my life:
i'm majoring in Fashion Merchandising...
hopefully SFSU will like me...

nuh lingaaaaaa!!!

woooooooooooooow
so my best friend totally ditched me
for her fiance...
sux right?
she doesn't call me or talk to me anymore
&
she basically used me.
i was there for her when SHE needed me,
now that she doesn't need me anymore,
i'm just an invisible (insert vulgar word here) to her.
some friend aye?

hmmm.
there are some FIONE axx dudes at
my school this year.
where have y'all been hiding?
LOL just kidding.
(although i do have a hard time paying attention when one walks by).

i'm still a vigo!
yessss.

and uhm...
i don't know what else to tell y'all lol
my life is pretty boring.
i really do wish it were more innteresting
buuut it isn't
:D
later dudes...

my mind is racing

man so many thoughts on my mind, such as: just about everything is blowing up in my face; i'm just about irritated with everything, including the people around me, near AND far; my life is a mess, i need to pick up the peices and fast; never bee...n so hurt by such words in my life, they just keep coming at me like bees; i need to find new people to be included in my life, NEW ones i can TRUST. as of now i only have a select group that i chose to talk to. patty, rachel, des, jenny, pilar (ha!), and the people i have here on facebook [sorry i dint name you, but you know who you are]; feeling unwanted, invisible, ignored, etc., etc.; can't wait to move; sometimes i wonder if my different is good; homie, stop tryna be real with me and be real with yourself...be true to yourself; my situation is getting more and more nutzo everyday; i need to go somewhere, anywhere away from here; tired of being taken advantage of; tired of people thinking i'm a wink link, no, no honey: i just let you think that; last but not least, and not the last: PEOPLE NEED TO STOP FXCKIN AROUND, it's not a dayum joke [excuse my french].

tell me whyyy

i had this nutzo, but dope dream
that i was one of the stylists for Tyler Perry's movies.

it all started out when he came to my
collegio to do some comedy stuff
and after i got to interview him
[how? i dunno. i think i just asked]
so i was asking about him being homeless
but yet VERY intelligent
[is that rude? not all poor/homeless people are education deficit.
does that make sense? oh well]
him being single,
the success of his movies,
madea, uncle joe, etc...
and we had small talk basically.

so we start talking
about his height amd i stand up next to him--
i'm 5'9.75 so of course i was HELLA shorter than him.
then i talk about how it must be awesome to work
or intern for him because of thew atmosphere.
he looks at me and my outfit
[it was maaad dope!]
and asks "how would like to be one of the stylists on deck?"
somehow one of the stylists decided to leave
because of family issues
so therefore i became the "replacement girl"
[ha! remember that song? real fans know what i'm speaking of!]
i was in a state of shoooooooooock! lol
so then i move to ATL like a couple weeks later
and move into a dope axx apartment
and it goes from there.

maybe i was fantasizing,
i dunno,
but it was dope!
i have a hard time regurgitating stories or dreams
but it was a cool dream/fantasy.
in my dream, mr. perry was,
as wendy williams often says [i lvoe that woman!]
"a friend in my head."

yes,
my dreams are interesting,
but i have a good time when i
partially sleep!


ok i feel bad now because i'm nawt paying
any attention to jimmy fallon!
i swear i have a crush on him, i dunno whyyy.
such a weird crush
ahahahahaha
laterrr.

don't you lvoe her?

so do i!!!
this is the lvoely woman who will
be modeling my designs!
:DDDD
you can call her,

Yoelle.

aaaawww.

i was looking at some old pictures
of myself in my old camera
and i looked
H A P P Y .
like nothing could tear me down.
i don't know what happened to her.
but i've got to get her back--
i hate New Year Resolutions,
but this year i just might make a
list with one resolution on it:
TO BE HAPPY.
the new year is about
4 months-ish from now, but thats mine.
i seriously hope and pray
to be happy.

as mary j, says:

"All I really want, is to be happy"

i know she's speaking of lvoe
in that song,
but maybe thats what i,
need to be happy.
sounds crazy, i know lol
i paused before i typed that.

but i don't know.
whatever God plans for me,
i am okay with.
whether it be lvoe,
new friendships,
money
[ha! "money can't buy you everything/happiness],
a new calling,
i hope it is what i need to be happy.

info about taurus

i think i've posted something like this before, but oh well
[i forgot where i got this from, oops!]:

True to the mascot of the Taurus, your stubbornness is the root of your resolve [ahahaha part of the reason why i don't get along with my father]. You’re highly motivated to finish something you start. Why put in blood, sweat and tears without seeing the fruits of your labor? Because you work so hard at completing your goals – especially in your career – you value a hard-earned buck.

In fact, money is the object of your desire. It’s not that you’re greedy; it’s just that your financial situation affects how stable you feel. Plus, you enjoy the finer things in life – good food and drink and high-end things for yourself and your home. [i lvoe everything luxurious and extravagant, especially when i can get it for an EXTREMELY good/cheap price :D]

But when it comes to sharing, you’d rather protect your treasures and keep them to yourself. [unless i reaaaallly like you]

One thing Taurus is not is a risk taker. Your fixed zodiac quality represents your resistance to change.While practical, you aren’t particularly interested in trying new things. Change makes you feel uneasy and vulnerable. You crave stability and are comfortable with the familiar. [change is scary for me, i try, but it never works. im slower to change than most and have to do it gradually or else i'll have a panic attack!]

This sign’s cool, calm and collected exterior hides a tenacious temper. Rarely do you unleash it on others, unless you’re seriously provoked or attacked.Beneath your down-to-earth, easy-going personality lies someone who’s very romantic and concerned with matters of the heart. [exactly like a bull. lol they only attack or get dangerous when provoked]



Relationships
Taurus often have a difficult time meeting new people – you can be reserved and self-conscious around strangers. [people think i'm cocky because of that, well if you dont know, know you know] You’re more of a self-contained soul.But your inner circle of friends knows they can count on your shoulder to cry on. You have a knack for offering sound advice with a loving touch.When it comes to romantic relationships, you’re very affectionate and sensual. You prefer a steady courtship and rarely rush in to a relationship. [i think i would seriously have to "talk" to / date someone for mooonths before we can be a "couple]

Taurus’ best romantic matches are also earth signs – Virgo and Capricorn.You’re a giver, and all you ask for in return is a committed relationship where you feel safe. Just keep your possessiveness and jealousy in check. [i hate people who dont commit whether it be relationships or just random things. big turn off. i hate cheaters the most.]


Health
Taurus rules the neck and face. You probably have a soft and striking voice, providing to music to other people’s ears. You were also blessed with a beautiful neck and collarbone as well as a clear complexion.Some health problems you may encounter: Colds, coughs, laryngitis, stiff necks and thyroid gland issues. Taurus' love for food and a tendency to be lazy puts you at risk of gaining weight, especially in your later years. [ahahahahaaha so freaking true! i'm a little thick if you know what i'm saying lmao. i lvoe being thick though. :DDDD sooo much fun! the only thing thats nawt fun about it is not being able to wear some of the cute clothing because it looks better on the grossly skinny chix. (oh another novel)]


However, when you’re motivated to get up and get moving, you’re quite the athlete.


Career
Taurus' propensity for success and level of makes you a wonderful employee at most jobs.You enjoy positions where you’re responsible for money or can use your keep aesthetic eye, and work best in a day-to-day routine.

The best jobs for a Taurus include: musician, artist, singer, banker, stockbroker, insurance agent, accountant, cashier, real estate agent, florist, woodworker, and antique collector. [i lvoe music! i lvoe art! (just wish i had the chance to craft my craft), i lvoe to sing! (i'm an ok singer, would i make a career out of it? eh, maybe if i wanted to, probably couldnt deal with "blowing up"), i lvoe flowers! my faves are freesias, roses (yellow, white, pink(s)), orchids, pretty much the exotic looking flowers; and antiques are beautiful!!!!!!!!!]

While you’re a solid fixture in your loved ones' lives, embrace change every once in awhile. Or else you’ll never know what you could be missing out on. Are You Too Jealous?

Jealousy [i dunno lol it is true though] may have run rampant in your high school cliques, but isn't it time you grew out of this ugly emotion? [i dunno, i hope!!!!!!!!!] There are different degrees of jealousy, and the way you handle it makes all the difference. Find out if you're too jealous for your own good with this quiz.

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wow, ok.

ya i understand that i am
obeastly fat [yes, thats the way i spelled it]
but dayum!
do you, your mama, daddy, uncle, aunty,
grandfather, AND grandmother
have to say it too?
ugh.
it's annoying
and the reason as to why
i am insecure, depressed, and starving.
[no i don't starve myself, on purpose at least.
sometimes i just don't feel like eating for a
couple/few days, weird, i know].

do you know what the woman i am forced
to call my mother told me?

ok so we planned to go on a trip to LA right,
but she never told me when we were going.
then like on tuesday or wednesday
[week august 16-22]
she tells me that she didn't want to take me to LA
"looking the way [i] did [in fear of embarrasment maybe?]
and that "[i] looked better now."
i told her i lost weight because i havent been eating
and she didn't say anything.

ok so you mean to tell me
that it's okay for me to lose weight because i am eating every 2 days
instead of working out?
i was and still am very appalled
by my mother's actions.
i seriously refuse to go to LA now.
like i wanted to sooo bad, but eff it.
i felt like crying.

this is why i can't stand living in my house.

and my dad = another story.
let's just say he's an annoying,
controlling, manipulative, lying,
unimportant, violent, goolish,
unworthy, child favorite picker.

sometimes i wish i could just win the lottery
and build a ginormous house in the SF hills
so i can be alooooone.
i'm used to it anyhow.

blaaaaaah